Someone just claimed to me that Bill of Kill Bill was polyamorous. If so, he had the strictest “one penis policy” ever in the history of nonmonogamy.
I’ve decided to use “a social movement around the practice of nonmonogamy” as my personal definition of “polyamory” (revised from “the social etc” on the advice of a friend). Anything else I’ve ever heard requires telling someone who identifies as poly that they’re wrong, and that seems ridiculous to me.
Anyway, under this definition my objections to the term are gone, so I suppose I can go ahead and embrace it as a label. I know you were all holding your breath. Four years into seeing Carrie, I’m finally willing to ID as “polyamorous”.
Rounding out this incoherent post, I feel like this video should be embraced by the community:
Check out these lyrics:
We formed a new religion
No sins as long as there’s permission
And deception is the only felony
So never fuck nobody without telling me
Sunglasses and Advil, last night was mad real
Sun coming up, 5 a.m., I wonder if they got cabs still?
Thinking ‘bout the girl in all leopard
Who was rubbing the wood like Kiki Shepherd
Two tattoos: one read “No Apologies”
The other said “Love Is Cursed by Monogamy”
It’s something that the pastor don’t preach
It’s something that a teacher can’t teach
Sometimes Kanye speaks truth.
If I mention you in this blog, and don’t have your permission to use your name, I will anonymize you as previously mentioned. If the topic feels at all sensitive, I’ll first ask you about it. If I ever post anything that makes you uncomfortable, just let me know and it will come down immediately. I’ll try to avoid that by discussing it beforehand, but obviously that won’t always be sufficient.
I won’t tell anyone else’s stories without their explicit consent, either. This is a place where I’ll talk about my relationships with other people, but not their relationships-once-removed with other folks, except as they tangentially relate to me. I don’t mind relating stories that someone wants related, but I’m not going to snag them without asking.
If you and I are seeing each other and you’d rather not be mentioned at all, let me know and you won’t come up, even anonymously.
If you’re not mentioned or involved and something I’ve posted makes you uncomfortable, I suppose you should tell me but I do reserve the right to ignore that.